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INFJ

I’ve heard that my type is rare. I guess it’s true–I don’t think I actually know any INFJs personally other than myself. I really like the mystical, mysterious, introspective stereotype, honestly 😀 It makes me feel like an awesome, bearded mentor on a mountaintop– sort of a Gandalf-ly person. I like to think I’m helpful and give good advice.

I both love and hate the fact that I’m hard to get close to. People can’t read me easily. People who know me well can make educated guesses, but I can still fake them out. I love it because it makes me feel safe, because no one will know what I don’t want them to. I can read people really well and they can get close to me without me having to get close to them. I hate it because I can feel alone, and like people don’t understand my feelings. I’m thankful to have some great friends who keep me from feeling too lonely and misunderstood. 🙂

I don’t think I agree with the idea that INFJs are “extroverted introverts.” I’m 97% introverted. Sure, I come out of my shell with people I know really well. Yeah, don’t get me wrong, I can be straight-up insane around friends. But introverted doesn’t mean “quiet and shy.” I enjoy hanging out with friends. I enjoy being crazy with friends. But even with close friends, I tend to get burned out and need alone time to recharge. I’m your typical introvert who needs at least 6 hours to psych myself up to go out and do something, even with people who make me feel comfortable.

Oh, and I’m surprised that INFJs and ENFJs aren’t paired as a dynamic best friend duo more often. A lot of my close friends are ENFJs and they’re awesome! Shoutout to @cindy 😀 @daeus-lamb, I barely know you and I already feel like we’re kindred spirits. 🙂