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@bama-rose

So, I absolutely love to talk about MBTI and my family can attest to that fact. I’ve not delved into the functions yet, but I do have some experience with the personality types you’re talking about.

I am an INTJ so not what you’re looking for, however both my mother and sister are ISFJs, so that’s where I spend a lot of time looking. I do know two people with INFJ personalities, but I’m just going to stick to ISFJ.

Both my mother and sister dislike conflict, but I wouldn’t say they shy away from it. They dislike conflict because it hurt people, not because they don’t believe in standing up to defend someone. Where as I am more likely to fight than my sister, there have been times where someone has said something less than favorable about me, but as I didn’t care I ignored it. However my sister fought back and defended me.

So I’d say that while both types really care about people and dislike conflict, ISFJs just want to support people and see conflict as non-beneficial. If it helps people they’re all for it.

If I’m wrong or someone disagrees with what I’m saying that’s fine. I’m not 100% sure on any of this anyway.

Another way to tell the difference between the personality types is to look at the letters themselves. There is only one letter difference between the two (which I’m sure you know) so all you need to do is figure out if your character is an N or an S. And I think E. K. gave you a way to do that.

Hope this helped.