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Oooo, INTJ stuff. *grins and rubs hands*

First a disclaimer. Just because this is how I’d react doesn’t mean every INTJ would act like that. But it’s somewhere to start, I suppose.

1. How is she likely to act under intense pressure (like life-and-death pressure)? Probably very ‘in control’. Inwardly they might be freaking out. Outwardly they act like they know what they are doing. They take charge. They give orders and are constantly calculating and recalculating everything. Feelings will hit with a rush afterward and leave them shaking, but at the moment they are zoned on the action/danger and what needs to happen right NOW.

2. How is might she act around people she cares about, and how would she express her love for them?

She expresses her love by taking care of them. INTJs love deeply; they just aren’t the best at showing it in all the outward manners other people use. But they will take care of them. Protect them. Get them things. Tease them but always be there for them when they are hurt. And this probably depends on their love language too, not just personality type.

3. How might she react if someone she cares about talks about things that matter to them or about hard things in their life (both internal and external reactions)?

She’ll listen and her gut reaction will be to try to fix the things or at least want to. If it is something they are struggling with, her mind will go to all the ways they could maybe fix it; the ways she could help; what can be done. For them, pain and struggle means something is wrong. And if something is wrong, they want to fix it. They can sit still and just hug them and be with them. But not being able to do anything about it is hard.

4. How is she likely to react to seeing someone she cares about being bullied (verbally and physically)?

Internal rage. Not a hot rage that’s going to leap at them and tear their eyes out. But a very icy cold rage that is going to insert itself into the middle, between the friend and whoever is hurting them, glare at them, and get involved verbally. They will probably be controlled enough to not lash out physically, but they’ll probably want to. And if the other shoves them around enough, they will eventually lash out.

I hope that helps. 😉

@naiya-dyani