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@kari-karast: “0.0 Whoa. Did you just volunteer to listen to my feelings???” hehe, ya… Its something I’ve been learning in the past few months : D. You see, I was a camp not to long back, and there where these two leaders who were both just AMAZING listeners and it felt so good just to be listened too so I decided to try and learn how to do it too (kinda like how you would train to lift weights or something ; D) And, believe it or not, I’ve actually gotten really good at it! I’ve learned to be much less judgemental and, irl, I can (and do) actually listen to people express there emotions XD. In fact yesterday I had and INFP at my house and we had a great chat! Now, that doesn’t mean that if you were crying or something I would give you a hug. I would probably just look visibly uncomfortable and pat your shoulder awkwardly XD Also, its a one way thing for me, I still extreamly dislike to shair my own emotions so ya. BUT, I’ve realised that alot of my dislike (see how I used a nicer word then hate XD) for emotions actually comes out of a place of fear because their uncontrollable and incapacitating, often keeping me from making sound, logical judgments and thus weak. Now, if you really don’t want to talk, thats cool but I was just uncharacteristically vulnerable in an attemt to help you so I’m kinda hoping you don’t just leave and make this all for nothing XD Also, if you want proof I’m not just making this up you feel free to read this doc I wrote about the things I learned after camp!

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1diyJd5Wuh687BgxzVa3WS9BPs_WyZs0kqceWWYlJud4/edit?usp=sharing