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theinconceivable1 replied to the topic Hi, in the forum Introduce Yourself 7 years, 3 months ago
@samantha-pen: Glad you liked it! (Thanks for reading it BTW! It makes me happy : D) I think your inclination towards introversion could also be due to the fact that your developing Fi at the moment and thus you should be more aware of that aspect of who you are! (I know, for one, I’ve felt much more extroverted then I used to!) Ya, I can love talking to people… It depends on what it’s about though. If I’m talking about something I’m knowledgeable or passionate about and something that matters! (For example, I went to a party/gathering and they talked about ABSOLUTELY NOTHING of value and it was sooooo boring. Like seriously, a real comment was “you have pretty eyelash’s” *drags his hands down his face* man THAT kind of conversation kills me. So in that sence, no, I absolutely HATE talking. But, on the other hand, I was at a friends birthday sleep over the other day and I stayed up till 4 talking about personality types with a guy (he is actually and ENFP too…) so, if it’s something that matters then ya, I love talking XD. I think we’re different in that I don’t have that many friends… From what I know of ENFP you guys are super energetic, usually pretty funny, and have a pretty wide range of interests so you end up connecting with a lot more people then me. So I guess it depends on what you mean by ‘alot’ XD I feel like I do hang out with people alot but we may have very definitions of ‘alot’. I’m pretty individualistic and I can ( and do) happily just stay by myself researching and writing all day! It’s pretty rare for me to be the one to initiate a hangout but you do that a lot right? I’m curious, do you enjoy having alone time where you dont do anything? For instance, I find listening to music and just staring the car window for three hours to be one of the most refeshing and relaxing things I know. What’s the most relaxing thing for you? But ya, I do need a significant amount of time with myself after some social interaction. “Also, Do you find you connect easier with N’s in general?” Absolutely. Intuitives tend to enjoy deep conversations much more then Sensors in my experiance. I think they’re less prone to small talk. And ya, I’ve had some really good conversations with sensors but It usually takes more digging for them to open up. I usually will have to spend a significant amount of time with them before they talk about things of value. So, once you get to know them and break through that outer layer, then I can see how Sensors are great but It’s rare I get that far. I tend to just give up on people that dont want to go deep XD I think were diffrent in that way too… Do you think your more prone to try and get to know everyone and try and befriend them even if its a challenge? For me, the few sensor friends I have I only have becase I was forced to shair experiences with them. For instance one of my best friends is an ISTJ and I would have never got to know him if it wasnt for the fact that we played chess and did robotics together (Hehe, I’m better then at chess XD …but then again, hes better then me at Robotics :’ ( ) and ya, he keeps me grounded (and is often right, which is really anoying actually…) so I see what your saying! Ya, well I recently discovered how to listen (I know right XD), so I’ve found I’m able to connect with alot of people because of that. Before that I would write SP types off as surfacy adrenaline junkies, NF’s as stupid feelers (hehe, don’t get mad at me for that XD) and SJ’s as boring. (and I never really meet any other NT’s so…) but ya, while I still have a hard time with SP’s I’ve been able to reconcile SJ’s as practial, and realistic and NF’s as, well still feely but not stupid XD But I’ve found I really enjoy INFJ’s! They are like the holy grale of personality types to me… I just connect with them on so meny levels ( I think for the same reason as you do with ENTP’s) So ya their probably my favorite (and the best in my opinion!) XD as far as functions go I like those with Te, Fe, Ni, and Ne ( I think…) Anyway, sorry, That was pretty long XD what do you think of INTJ’s? (also, are you sure your dad is a real INTJ? alot of S’s mistipe as N’s so you might want to check that (but then again you might have already done that XD) I’m abotu 75% sure I’m a real INTJ! XD)










