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@mlbolangerauthor @eden-anderson Thank you both! I have had occasion to think about this issue a lot over the years as I have grown into adulthood. One of my older brothers identifies as gay, so I couldn’t exactly skirt around the issue. In addition, seeing the interactions and misunderstanding that has grown up between him and my parents has given me a unique perspective on it, I think.

I knew what you meant, Eden, and it didn’t seem like you were be-littling the struggle of most men by what you said. 🙂 I also find that the attention and focus of a lot of the teaching about these issues focuses too much on surface issues, and ends up causing other problems instead, rather than getting to the heart of the matter. Thanks for clarifying anyway, though. 🙂

(And you’re definitely right in your point that women who struggle with pornography seem to be an invisible demographic, as opposed to men. I didn’t intend to detract from that.)